From treats to trust: Building a strong bond with your furry friend-

For the 20th-anniversary issue, here’s highlighting how you can strengthen the bond with your pet and take it a step further with love, care, and patience. – by Nitya Ramachandran

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Living harmoniously with dogs should be a joyful experience rather than a source of stress. It’s crucial to establish a nurturing connection with your canine companion without resorting to intimidation or coercion.

Follow these well-established strategies for fostering a deep and enduring bond with your pet.

Walk away from the blues!

Regularly taking your dog for a daily walk is a highly effective approach. Given that dogs are inherently pack animals, walking together can help reaffirm your position as the pack leader and offer valuable mental stimulation for your pet.

The world is waiting for you two

Take your pet on adventures and travel to different places with him. Bringing your pet along allows you to strengthen your bond with him. As you lead him through new experiences, you demonstrate that the world is an exciting place and that you are the one who can provide access to all its wonders. This shows your pet that through you, exciting things are possible, and wonderful places are within reach.

Games go a long way

Encourage your pet’s instinct to chase by playing games like fetch. When he is rewarded for bringing back the ball or Frisbee, it strengthens your bond. Similarly, playing hide and seek can help strengthen your bond, as it tests his ability to recognize your voice and his desire to find you.

Trust the power of touch

Dogs release oxytocin when they have physical contact with a human they love. You can promote this by giving him belly rubs, massages, or grooming. Use touch to reinforce good behaviour, and remember to pet him in areas they like and allow him to move away when they want.

Training tails

Training your pet to obey can help strengthen your bond. Daily training gives him a way to please you, helps you communicate better, and improves your relationship. Teaching basic commands using both words and hand signals takes advantage of your pet’s ability to understand body language. Being consistent in your commands and gestures removes confusion and shows your dog that you are the leader.

Love in every bite

If you want to improve your relationship with your pet, then every meal your pet eats out of a food bowl is a missed opportunity! When you feed your pet by hand, it teaches him that the best things in life come through you. Every morsel of food you pass on to him reinforces your position as a loving pack leader.

Special occasions mean special treats

It’s important to occasionally give your pet a special treat to strengthen your bond. These special treats should be saved for times when he has exceeded your expectations. By not giving them out frequently, these special treats will remain meaningful and rewarding for your pet.

A little away to come closer

Remember to give your pet some alone time. Spending time apart helps to build a healthy bond. You don’t need to constantly engage with him. Simply being in the same room as your pet can strengthen your relationship. Your presence, breath, and scent create a calm and reassuring environment for your furry friend.

Secure with a schedule

Creating a regular schedule for activities like feeding and walking gives your pet a predictable routine and shows him that his needs will always be taken care of. This helps him feel secure, knowing that he can rely on you for his meals. By building this trust, it strengthens the bond.

Know his nature to nurture

Dogs have been bred over time for specific tasks, leading to distinct genetic traits. Knowing your pet’s breed and genetic traits can help you understand his behaviour. By nurturing these natural traits, you can build a stronger bond with your pet.

ABC of empathy and understanding

Understanding someone leads to loving them. Having empathy is crucial for a healthy relationship. Your pet pays close attention to your mood. Return the favor to strengthen your bond. Take the time to learn as much as possible about your canine companion. Is he a lively little guy or a relaxed couch potato? What is his favorite food? What does he fear? The more you know, the more you can love.

Speak the language of love

Your pet may not understand the words you say, but he can certainly understand the tone of your voice. A friendly tone indicates acceptance and encourages reciprocation. Studies reveal that dogs respond more favourably to someone who speaks to them in a high-pitched “dog voice” instead of a regular voice. They also desire to be around such a person. Go ahead, talk to your pet in that high-pitched tone you reserve only for him to strengthen your bond.

Look into his eyes and get a peek into his soul

Dogs release oxytocin when they look into their human companion’s eyes. You can use this increase in the “love hormone” to strengthen the emotional bond with your furry friend. Make sure to look into his eyes affectionately whenever you can, and respond when he does the same. Just be careful that the eye contact doesn’t come across as threatening.

Step from frustration to compassion

Your perspective toward circumstances often dictates your response to them. If your pet gets destructive when left alone at home and you believe that he does it out of anger and a desire to seek revenge, you’re likely to get angry in return. However, if you understand that he rips your pillows apart in your absence to cope with the fact that he misses you, you might be more sympathetic. Your pet’s life depends on you taking care of him. He would never do something on purpose to frustrate you. Look at the situation through his eyes; those very eyes that see you as a flawless, perfect being.

Love is the key to every lock

The behaviour of a dog reflects his emotions. When dogs feel secure and loved by their primary caregivers, anxious behaviours are significantly reduced. You can strengthen the bond with by consistently meeting its needs and ensuring it never feels like it has to earn your love.

You’re the leader

Remember these tips to establish non-violent leadership with your pet –

  • Eat your meals before feeding your pet
  • Always walk through doors ahead of your pet
  • Take the lead on walks by setting the pace and deciding where to go
  • Make your pet earn treats instead of giving them freely

Rewarding good behaviour

Every time you interact with your pet, you have a chance to encourage good behaviour. By consistently rewarding positive actions, you not only shape their behaviour but also strengthen your bond. Rewards make your pet feel good and improve your relationship, motivating him to seek more chances to earn rewards and become a calm and happy pet. Use treats, praise, petting, and toys to effectively train your furry friend.

Catch the pawsitive moment

For highly social animals such as dogs, relationships hold a lot of power. If your pet has a strong bond with you, it motivates them to make you happy. If he rolls over and asks for a belly rub, give it to him even if you’re busy. If he enters the room while you are watching TV, say ‘Hi’ in your doggo voice and gesture for him to sit with you. If you want to improve your relationship do not let opportunities for interaction pass by. Respond to him, even if it is just a quick pat on the head.

Decode canine communication

Dogs use their body language to communicate, such as barking, wagging their tails, and moving their ears. It’s important to understand these cues to recognize your pet’s emotions, responses, and needs, which will help strengthen your bond with him. Dogs can sense and respond to your emotions, so staying calm will help them feel secure.

Pooch comfort always a priority

When introducing your pet to new environments, people, and experiences, do it gradually to ensure he feels safe. Avoid overwhelming him with too many new things at once. Your pet’s comfort is the top priority, so it’s important to introduce him to new things slowly and steadily.

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